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Anger management
As salaam alaikum Reader,
I pray this message finds you well.
Do you ever think about times in your life when you were almost like a different person? Today I thought about back when I used to be 'angry mommy'. I don't mean to say that I was 'angry mommy' because my children told me I was mean by the way. Being called 'mean' by a child means practically nothing.
I know I was angry and had lots of negative emotions erupting somewhat frequently. I was angry, not always, just when they didn't listen...and it was not a pretty sight. There was yelling, threats, me waving a wooden pot spoon to let them know I was serious. There were lots of tears, frustration, regret at the end of the day, and hope that the next day would be different.
I almost hate to admit it, but you know what else there was...order, finished school work, and productivity.
When i decided to let go of mommy rage I honestly did not know how to keep the order and productivity that it kept in place. So I'll be honest...I let it all go. I decided that my yelling like a lunatic over a messy kitchen floor days were over...and if that meant that things were loosey goosey around the house and home...then so be it.
I didn't know how to maintain standards or control without anger, or the risk of it.
It took me a long time to get to a place of authority that embraces healthy anger that is in service to love and familial cohesiveness. It is still a work in progress, as I am also a work in progress, and i don't expect the struggle to end completely anytime soon. This world is, afterall, a place of struggles and tests.
If you are interested to learn tools to plan your life and time with a priority for presence please join me November 27 @ 8am EST. I learned that a good amount of my innappropriate anger stemmed from not being present to my reality, my needs, or the needs of those around me...oh and I was not even present to my own emotions and how I was really feeling or what i really wanted. Once I started planning with presence in mind, the pendulum began swinging back towards the middle and things evened out a bit. when they arent even, atleast I have a good idea of why or why not.
Hoin me for he Planning for Presnce Masterclass & Workshop. Registration is required and I look forward to seeing you there insha'Allah
Peace
Makeda
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